secrets
we are all guilty of the same things. when those things annoy us, we get on our high horse, and we pretend we would never do such a thing, and ask “how could they do that!?!?”. it’s so ignorant and annoying. there are no rules for living, there are no rules for who you like, who you love, and why you do so. no one will ever mind their own business, and its ridiculous to even ask now a days. everything you do will always be talked about by the people around you, and i dont really think anyone is in the wrong. i dont think you should ever be ashamed of anything you do, anything you care about. we all need our secrets, but usually the things our friends want to gossip about, arent those deep dark secrets that we cling to, but more than likely they just wanna know who we’ve been making out with so they can judge and decide how they feel about that.
grow up. people date, usually they break up, and they should always be allowed to move on, in whichever direction theyd like. there’s no rule that says if your brother is dating someone, and he doesnt appreciate that person, that you shouldn’t get a chance to say or show that person how you feel. maybe that person is your “soulmate”. it really blows my mind that anyone would think that after theyve dated someone, they have eternal dibs on that person. there are numerous ways to respect the situation, numerous ways to handle it accordingly, but as intelligent people, we should be able to handle it and move on.
and even more ridiculous to me, is when any certain instance bothers an outsider more than it bothers the person they are concerned about being hurt by this. when some lonely asshole has to run his mouth and sound the alarm because he doesnt agree with what happened. and usually, this person who is crying out for justice, if you through their past, youll see some nice things, and great backstabbing moments, where they defied everything they claim they stand for, and had some fun with their best friends boyfriend/girlfriend.
im just writing cause i hate when anyone tells another person they are out of line for following their heart, and you know what, i could care less if in the end they were only following their dick(and dick in this case can stand for girlie parts too, i just think it sounds better right now).
do what you want, whenever the fuck you want it. you arent going to live forever and you should experience everything you can, while you can. it might be something you remember and cherish for the rest of your life, who knows. and that angry angry person who always has so much to say, check in on them in a few years, and i bet nothing will have changed.
